The thing Husband and I forgot when it comes to
working with and rehabilitating a dog with behavioral fear issues is how hard
and frustrating it can be in the beginning!
We love Lacey and our committed to helping with her issues. But we are empathizing with all of those second time around parents who also forget that as wonderful and sweet newborns are, there are times when they drive you crazy! Parental sleep deprivation when the baby refuses to go to sleep night after night after night anyone?
Thankfully, Lacey sleeps through the night. However, her fears gives her the attention span of a gnat. That can be frustrating when we are trying to work on something or after an evening of barking jags because the neighbors are having a BBQ.
I wrote on my DIY blog
Condo Blues about the light bulb moment I experienced when I realized why Lacey didn't always do as I said and how my frustration feed into her frustration to boomerang back at me. Of course the first instinct is to blame the dog but to be honest, a big chunk of the problem is
me (you can read about it
here.)
I need to get my head back in the game. I can’t
expect Lacey to consistently confident if I don’t give her a good example to
follow.
I've spent the last year putting everything but me first that I haven't
even been on my own list.
Sound familiar to anyone?